IF WE WERE HAVING COFFEE: DAY 23 NANO POBLANO.

HOT AND STRONG

Well hello everyone  you have caught me on the hop. It has  not been a good week and I been on the back foot , but that is my problem not yours!

If we were having Coffee . Come on in the fires are lit  the cushions are plumped up and  we have  the coffee and tea on the cakes and sweets are set out.Paul  and  his guests  are all here  and enjoying  the warmth  and food and drinks. We  have  tea  and coffee  from all over  the world not to mention all our cakes  and muffins  and  as Paul  calls  them sweets! Every single  one  is  calorie  free! Plus of course  we now have spirits  and liquors  to warm the coldest of  you .

If we were having coffee : I would tell you  that I had tried to be  busy yesterday  but I  found it so exhausting. Fighting  pain, depression and the feeling that you are wading through sand!

HOT AND STRONG

I am not really  sure what I would want talk about my week today  If  we were having Coffee: 

If we were having  coffee : I would say okay   it is Sunday  and  I have to apologize,  here  you are all waiting on the doorstep  and where am I , in my gymjams  and slippers  with my favourite warm hoody and slippers, no make up  and and hair all over the place.

But  If  we were having Coffee: I’d say  sorry  I look such a mess but I am sure you’ll forgive me.  Everything is  ready  so come on lets all sit  down and have a chat. I think I shall have  a Gaelic Coffee.

If  we were having Coffee: I had a shock  this morning I walked into the lounge  and  there large as life was one of the  squirrels sitting in the middle of the front lawn ( very close to the window)  oblivious to the world and me! Franticly  digging holes in the lawn, three large ones in fact! After  a little while  he scampered off across the  lawn  and after a few minutes found  some nuts! Then  before  scampering off with them  he took time out to stand  and eat one!!   Finally  he shot  back across the lawn to the Willow tree  and  he settled  there for another  dig.  Then his mate  came rushing  down the tree and almost jumped on him! Well that was it they were off, scampering  and jumping. Up trees and and down trees round and round!! Having  so much fun! Boy  if  we could  bottle that energy  we could  make a fortune!

Happy Eater
Happy Eater
Holes in the lawn
Holes in the lawn

 

I took these through the window  and I only  had  my phone  to hand!  I had  the largest  magnification  I could  and the light reflected  through the window my side! So the are not brilliant  but I think you can see the holes ( though I only  got two) In the second photo and in the first one the  eating chappie!!  Just about anyway!! Lets  try a professional  shot  this  the nearest to the two out front!

PRO. SHOT

If we were having Coffee:  I say  just look at the difference  between my poor efforts at photo the squirrels at  play compared to the professional one! Well now can I get you another drink , what takes  your fancy, tea,   coffee or just a cake it is all here and it is just for you!

How are  you coping with the onslaught  of Christmas? Have you done all you shopping and written all your cards? I have only got close family  presents  so far, the Newbie of course I showed you all the  Rocking Horse and Xylophone  didn’t I.

All my cards  are sitting on the table  shaming me as I sit  here and type trying hard to ignore them, failing miserably. I am just not in the mood and now all the adverts on the TV  are “Buy, Buy ” “Perfect family , perfect Christmas) which I am afraid to say is  Bullshit! sorry  but  nothing is ever perfect …. maybe  the happy  few, but no even they are exaggerating orlying or incredibly self obsessed or   money orientated!

If we were having coffee :  I would have to apologise  for letting  my  low mood rip  but these adverts  give off the wrong  messages , spend , spend, through money at it  just take take  and MUST HAVE!  The real meaning of Christmas is lost. Personally  I find it gets worse every year. Raising  everyone’s expectations  is  never good, is it do agree or disagree. Let us  face it  family  forced together for a couple of days  is not always a good thing  (not everyone gets one ) . Then loads of people spend the next year paying off their credit/ debit card  bills off! Here are just  three of the current ones! Debenhams first so all children are allowed to be  set three in a huge store  just to get what they want… Yes  REALLY?

Secondly Marks  and Spencer, the fairies  are going to make  everything  right , even find  your cat  or a new man  for you!!

Finally  the Sainbury’s advert  which is  about a true story and  is beautifully  done  but actually offends me. Not like  the other adverts which  just irritate for their twee perfectness. The Sainsbury’s advert is set in 1914 the first Christmas in the Trenches. Some  troops  from both side sang carols  exchanged  gifts  and played  football. Well to my  mind to use something so  special, that only  happened once.  In this year of  the centenary of WW1  and so close to Rememberence /Vetern’s day  to use the story to make people shop in their stores is …cheep to say the least  and down right ignorant at the most.  Here it is  you can make up  your own minds.

Have some cake

If we were having coffee: I would say  sorry I did not mean to go on a rant ignore me, it is just  me feeling low. Come on  tell me off if  you want! Look I am sorry  as today  has gone on I have actually got worse, I can hardly  walk around the house, it has taken  me all day to get washed and dressed. I have done  my hair . Made  the bed. hovered the stairs and now I am done! I am beginning  to sound like a real whiner . So I am going to have another coffee  get  you all one  and  tell you to help yourself  to  food!

If we were having coffee : I ham going to lie down now  but I am going  to leave  you with my happy song  in the hopes it will make up  for  my moody rants!

IF WE WERE HAVING COFFEE:  I would say  lets  go and see what Paul’s  guest are up to lets  all mix  and have fun.  I would ask you if you would  like another  cuppa, or  another cake . !   If we were having Coffee  Original idea  from  http://parttimemonster.wordpress.com/ 

 

Hot Coffee and Bear!

TEAM Mark 

Author: willowdot21

Female, wife, full time mother and Grandmother. I am not as happy go lucky as I used to be but I am still bubbling along on simmer! I have three handsome sons all grown and flown.The youngest married with a beautiful wife and two sons of his own. Eleven years ago I was working, running a home, driving and socializing then bang in a split second all that was gone. I had an accident at home. I broke my back, not for the first time, I had broken it 10 years previously as well. Unfortunately this time I had broken it really badly and it was truly messed up so I had to have two operations. I was told before each operation that the outcome could mean I spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair. Still as some guy once wrote "I am still standing " yes "better than I ever was " not quite but with the help of a walking stick and as long as I do not stand or sit in one position for too long, I am still standing! Update I no longer use the walking stick . I had lots of friends before the accident but when things like this happen, you loose most of them. Their lives move on and mine stood still and so they left me behind ...I know that is just the way life is but it hurt and always will. Then I looked around and saw those who were still there for me, these friends are the roses in my garden they need to be tended well. They are the diamonds in the dust, I will of been married 50yrs plus this year . Pain and boredom are my enemies now, I have to find different ways to approach life, use my pain befriend it almost...yer right , well that is what they tell me at the pain clinic ROFLMAO ...... if only I could! I have found an outlet for my fears, frustrations and night terrors . I have started writing poetry if that name can be applied to my writing. I hope I do not come over as a moaning winger. I hope I am past all that. I also hope that you might see how the poetry is moving from very dark through the grey and hopefully in to light ?? I need to update this a little here. I have worked very hard over the years since my accident, I go to the gym regularly, I have a Pilates class and a core class once a week . The guys at the gym and my Pilates teacher cajoled, teased, bullied and encouraged me to abandon my walking stick! :) My back is no longer straight it is C shaped because of the injury and I have lost two and a half inches in height but my Pilates and Core teachers have helped me to stand up as straight and as strongly as possible. Pain and depression are still hanging on my arm but I have weapons to use against them and if I say so myself I cope well. I have made lots of new friends, real diamonds. I am also very grateful for all the support and help I have encountered here on Wordpress. Hugs and welcome to everyone who visits.

13 thoughts on “IF WE WERE HAVING COFFEE: DAY 23 NANO POBLANO.”

  1. Hi Willow! It is wonderful to see your post. I was worried there for a bit when you hadn’t posted. I was afraid something had happened (like sick or an accident or something). I totally get your rant about advertizing. I watched the Sainsbury and I must say it was beautifuly done, as you said. It does leave me with a sort of dirty feeling that such a momentous occassion in history should be used for advertizing. See I feel the same wayabout zoos – it seems so cruel to keep the animals in cages. And yet there are excellent arguments to do so. Like the sainsbury ad, it increases awareness among the general public of an occurence (or animal) that may otherwise go unnoticed or unpublicized. (Same with the animals, awareness helps their cause). It takes money and time and will to create such a video and unless it is sponsored by a company it is unlikely to be made. And if they are going to invest what was likely millions in producing it, isn’t it reasonable to allow them to put their name on it? They did receive (according to the credits) authorization and support from the veterans.

    I guess my conclusion is that we are better off with the video being produced, even with sainsbury’s name on it, than we would be without the video. i know it touched my heart and made me more aware. I wish such memories could be preserved without the association with a company, but that seems unlikely.

    I hope your week coming will bring more happiness Willow. Thanks so much for the Irish Coffeee and cake – very tasty. And i love the fire. .

    1. Hi Paul, I am listening to my happy song through my headphones while I answer this as loud as I can stand! You have a point about the advert and yes Zoos too. It seems more and more these days everything has dual purpose. To teach and advertise, to teach and to preserve!
      Well I suppose to save a species you have to keep the animals safe , but to teach History do you really have to use it to advertise your business . I don’t know maybe I am too sensitive!
      Thank you Paul, sending you hugs!! xxx

  2. Sorry, Willow, you are not up to your usual self. We all have our down times.
    If we were having coffee, I’d be tempted to whine and complain, but I won’t. I was out all afternoon and had to scamper like a squirrel to catch up. All I w.a.n.t. to do is catch up on my sleep. Our snow is gone because of a couple of days of rain. At least we didn’t get the dump Buffalo had. ❤ 😦

  3. First of all, *hugs*! Second, I completely agree about what I call the Christmas debacle. I honestly wish I could hibernate for a month and come out when it’s all over. Hang in there, Willow. ❤

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