Well I have been dreading this day. Things are getting difficult , life is very complicated at the moment.
The MIL is ill, the husband is stressed, there are all sorts of things going on family wise.
The thing is the husband dose not like me blogging, in fact he hates it. I just cannot cope with everything that is going on at the moment and fight to write ( that is a great tag) seriously though I just can’t cope with arguments over my blog.
At the moment my life feels like it is falling apart so it with deep regret that I am having to stop posting. I shall try and read and comment if I can but please believe I will miss you all more than I can say.
If I have anytime on my own I might try to post a quick few words to keep my hand in . I do hope at some point I can come back properly.
Bee I am sorry for not finishing Love Is In Da Blog but who knows next year?
So to all of you,especially those of you who I have known a long time, some since I started and to my newer followers I am not abandoning you all I just have to be away for my sanity.
Oh! Look I could go on forever because I don’t want to say this. But for now adieu. I will miss you all so much.
I am hoping that Paul Curran will keep up his If we were having coffee every Sunday I am trying to find him a host and as soon as I know where he is going I shall let you all know!
Please all be be well and be happy!
I will leave you a song that describes you all!
willowdot21 
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:21:23
Take care, hope all turns out well as… G
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:22:14
Take care too and thank you ! 🙂
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:25:31
Prayers. It’s a shame your husband doesn’t understand your need to blog. Clearly, it’s your outlook. O hope life improves for you. Sending love.
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:28:07
Thank you Tosha needs must when the devil drives and there is a lot to cope with … I am a big girl I will cope and i shall be sneakily reading !! ❤ xxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:32:16
You’re welcome. I’m praying the devil gets thrown out of the car. 🙂 Take care, lovely. xx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:33:06
OH! I love that thank you thank you !! 😀
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:36:02
😉 You’re welcome
Feb 27, 2016 @ 12:37:37
Oh, Willow, we will miss you so much. That said, it is important that you take care of yourself and family first. When all is well again know we will be waiting patiently for your return. Meanwhile our prayers are with you and yours. Personally, I owe you a great debt of gratitude Willow for giving me the opportunity to post weekly when I was new and unsure of myself. You were an excellent hostess, Willow.
Thank you and our prayers are with you. Hugs:
Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:02:25
Thanks for your kind words Paul we have all loved your posts and I will do my to ensure you continue to post! You have been a great guest!! I hope to be if and when circumstances allow. ❤
Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:30:39
Love the Teds so much!
Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:16:59
So sorry to see you go but will be thinking of you and hoping all is well! Much love day and take care of yourself during this stressful time! xxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:19:25
Thanks Lynz I will be thinking of you and looking in to read went I can. You are a courageous woman and I am honoured to meet you. For now adieu. ❤
Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:43:28
thanks dear! xx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:28:44
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Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:42:10
xxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 14:31:16
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Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:41:05
Ah, dear Willow… you know you will be missed, by me especially, as you and I have been blogging together for more than four years now…. I empathize with your decision, hard as it is; I do feel compelled to point out the unreasonable, selfish behavior which is prompting the decision, and note that hubby would do well to do a bit of growing up… end of rant.
If you ever need to talk, my email is on my Home page; your name is always welcome in my inbox…. and, I’m a pretty good listener…
Take care, and let us know you are okay now and then, in a comment, if you can….
We, and especially I, love you, which means for you to be happy is essential to my own peace of mind….
I won’t say adieu; I will say, see you later…
Ned, aka gigoid, the dubious
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Feb 27, 2016 @ 13:53:10
Thank you Ned your words they are a great comfort! You are a true Gentleman I will be back xxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 14:04:58
Good…
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xoxo
Feb 27, 2016 @ 14:35:05
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Feb 27, 2016 @ 15:15:23
Sometimes it is best to float among the torrents and wave. Blogland is kind, understanding, and has patience. Rest. Float. May warmth and peace find you and yours.
Feb 27, 2016 @ 15:21:24
Thank you so much I do appreciate you kind thoughts and words, I shall take your advice. xxxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 15:17:38
Hope all turns out will you shall be missed 😦
Feb 27, 2016 @ 15:21:50
Thank you I hope to return. xxxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 16:29:44
Understand entirely… hope you get back to a happy place in life, writing, etc. soon. Jan
Feb 27, 2016 @ 17:57:04
Thanks Jan keep well! Xx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 17:14:08
I understand, Willow. Sometimes life gets in the way.
My husband also hates my blogging, or at least he thinks it’s pointless. Sometimes the fight just isn’t worth it.
Hope when things settle down, you’ll be able to return, but don’t rush things. Your home life is most important right now.
Feb 27, 2016 @ 17:56:33
Thanks CM I really appreciate your advice stay well, Vlad will keep you updated!! xxxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 17:20:44
I just couldn’t bring myself to “Like” this post. I’m sorry for you and for your readers. I’m sorry it has come to this. May you and your hubby find greater love, peace, and joy. You’ll be missed.
Feb 27, 2016 @ 17:55:15
Thank you Russ I do hope to be back thank again for your kind words today and all your past encouragement. Xxxx
Feb 27, 2016 @ 18:18:26
Take care.
Thinking of you.
Hope your rest from blogging rejuvenates your lives.
x
Feb 27, 2016 @ 18:53:28
Thank you so much!
Feb 27, 2016 @ 19:14:14
I am sending you good thoughts and energy for all that is going on in your life. Peace and happiness to you ~ always! Your posts will be missed.
Feb 27, 2016 @ 19:43:44
Thank you so much, I am sad but life is life!
Feb 27, 2016 @ 20:17:18
Not going to click “LIKE” as don’t like hearing this news. My thoughts and those of your many readers will be with you and hope you successfully navigate this challenge. I can go months without checking blogs due to other activities, but will miss being able to know there is always something new at your site and available whenever I visit. I really hope this is temporary and your husband realizes that his happiness is dependent on granting others the freedom to be happy. Life sometimes guides one in the right direction, and going through this may currently be the right thing for you in the long run. Wishing all works out for the best.
Feb 27, 2016 @ 20:21:44
Thank you zumpoemes, I have never known your name but you have been there since I started and you have been a beacon of talent. Thank you for your support. xxxx
Feb 28, 2016 @ 08:46:33
Well that’s a bugger for sure. The Textiliste isn’t keen if I mention her without clearing it first which is ok but this, well, grim. Hope you can unpick the lock sometime. Take care and keep writing the poetry.
Feb 28, 2016 @ 09:00:51
It’s not all hubby there is so much going on with the Mother in law (MIL) and other family stuff. The arguments about the poetry and blog is just the final straw. I shall try to pop in as I shall miss all the interesting posts not to mention the great friends I feel I have made, even if they are virtual. I am giving in not giving up. You have been an inspiration and great fun. In the words of the great Arni ‘I’ll be back’ 🙂
Feb 28, 2016 @ 10:23:08
Willow, sorry to hear things are so rough.
Just know we care and will be waiting for you when the sun comes out again as she always does.
Stanny sends you a special brown eyed loving gaze too.
Take care and try to fret not.
Feb 28, 2016 @ 10:55:45
Thank you Jean, I really appreciate yours and Stanny’s support! ❤
Feb 28, 2016 @ 19:35:27
Our pleasure and we’re always about for you!
Feb 28, 2016 @ 19:38:36
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It is a shame when we don’t receive the support we should particularly from where it should be expected. Wishing you the best Willow as always! We will be here. -OM
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Feb 28, 2016 @ 21:13:26
Thank you Jason you have always supported me, I do hope to be back. xxxx
Feb 28, 2016 @ 21:14:30
I hope so as well!
Feb 28, 2016 @ 21:15:24
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Feb 28, 2016 @ 22:44:03
Be well, gentle friend and know that we are always connected, every time something makes us smile! ❤
Feb 28, 2016 @ 22:45:38
Thank you that is lovely to know!
Feb 28, 2016 @ 23:07:11
God Bless you
Feb 28, 2016 @ 23:25:10
And. God bless you too!
Feb 29, 2016 @ 02:11:38
I regret that I have not read a lot of your beautiful blog, but I was drawn by fate (and Jason) to this post. Blogging can take up a lot of time. It can be overwhelming trying to balance blogging with the needs of the rest of our lives, yet it is also so important to many of us. I hope you and your husband can find a compromise, because blogging is important to you. I hope he can come to understand that better. But, no matter what, do take care of yourself, Willowdot.
Feb 29, 2016 @ 13:19:42
Hello JoAnna thanks for your wise words. I shall miss blogging but I hope to get back one day and I shall look you up! Be well and happy. xxx
Feb 29, 2016 @ 03:45:55
You sound like someone I would enjoy following so I really hate to hear you bid adieu. If you are like many of us, blogging is an emotional, stress-relieving outlet. How I wish I had some magical answer to halt your husband’s objections. I will be praying for your MIL, as well as you and your husband. Take care and I hope to see you writing again soon.
Feb 29, 2016 @ 13:17:23
Thank you so much Barb, I hope to be back if I can sort out the MIL , the family, the hubby and everything life entails! Be well and blog and hopefully I will be back! xxx
Feb 29, 2016 @ 05:00:39
Good luck Willow and be well. Nothing wrong with taking a break and we will be here when you get back. 🙂
Feb 29, 2016 @ 06:07:55
Thanks Tricia I look forward to my return keep well! xx
Feb 29, 2016 @ 07:14:48
Hi Willow, take good care of yourself and sometimes you have to take a break and sort out real life. My husband isn’t too keen on me blogging either so I know where you are coming from. A candle is lit for you and yours and a little present for you 🙂 https://justfoolingaroundwithbee.wordpress.com/2016/02/29/loveisindablog-badge-of-honour/. Sending a big hug to you!
Feb 29, 2016 @ 13:11:08
Thank you Bee I am so grateful I love the badge and I love the hug even more!! Be well and happy and I hope to return! ❤
Mar 09, 2016 @ 23:59:16
Thinking of you, dear Willow. I hope all is well.
Mar 15, 2016 @ 17:19:05
Take care of you, dear Willow. I will keep you in my thoughts! ❤
Mar 19, 2016 @ 18:39:34
I am really missing you all thanks for saying hi . I will be back ❤
Apr 04, 2016 @ 02:56:36
Willow – sending good thoughts of peace your way . . . ❤
May 04, 2016 @ 04:50:19
Gratefully received Sadie ❤