If we were having coffee: MIL,MIL and Stuff

If we were having Coffee: I would  remind  you  that  there  are lots of  other  coffee mornings  all shared  and organized  By  Diana  and  Gene’O  over at,Part time monster


Do join in

Come on  in  it is nice  to  sit  and  have a  chat  after  all  the  hustle  and  bustle  of  the past  few days.   I  can  still entertain  you  all  with tea  and coffee  from all over  the world not to mention all our cakes  and muffins  and  as Paul  calls  them sweets! Every single  one  is  calorie  free! Plus of course  we now have spirits  and liquors  to warm the coldest of  you.

So, If  we  were having  coffee :  I am not  sure  where  to  start I would  say  I  wish I was in my  pajamas ….. but  I  am  not  like  most  things  lately  I  don’t  get  what I  want. I  get  what is  good  for  me instead, or  even  worse  what  others  think is  good  for me!   Every man/woman  and his  dog  thinks  they  know better  than me. From  wrapping  me in  cotton  wool to  nagging  me  to  death!

If we were having coffee: I would  tell you  that  on  Monday  Hubby  and  I went  off  to  a little  town  about  thirty  miles  away  from  where  we live  just  to  get out  and  have  a break  from  the  stresses  of  Mother in  law   being  ill. We  also  took hubby’s  car  along  to  have it  serviced  at a  specialist  garage  there.

We walked  along  the canal  and looked  at  the  beautiful  cottages  and  Narrow Boats! We  found  the  Parish Church  called  St Lawrence, and  spent  a lovely  hour  looking  around inside  and  finding  out how old  and  steeped in  history  it  was! We  even met  a lady  who  was  also  “Just  visiting” and  she  told  us  she lived in  Devon  now  but had  originally  lived  just  three miles up  the road  from where  we live now! Well  what  are  the  chances  of  that!

Some  photos  of  our day.

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After  more  walking  we  found a lovely  coffee  shop  and  had a  cuppa  and  slice of  cake! We both  had  a  wonderful  time  and  we popped in to  see Mother in  law on our  way  home, she is  still doing  well!! Though  very  concerned  about  her  Lymphoma!

If we were having  coffee : Tuesday  I was  at  the  gym  but  I  had  decided  not  to  go  early  so  I  missed  my  gym buddy! Then  after  that  we  went  over  to  see  Mother in law  ( hereafter  to be  known as  MIL ) . Wednesday L, my  gym buddy  and  great  friend , and I  went  to  our  Pilates  class  which  was hard  work  as  ever  then  we had  coffee  and  a long  catch up! Then  again over  to  check out  MIL.

Thursday  I had  to  go  and  see  a  specialist , I have  been  having  a  lot  of  stomach  troubles  and  I  am  now  being  sick  a lot. I  have  had  all types of  exams and  finally  I  had  an ultrasound  scan  which  showed  that  I  have  a  lot  of  debris  in  my  gallbladder ………. I  was hoping  that  they  might  remove  my  gallbladder  well  after  three minutes  of  prodding  I  was  told  that  the  gallbladder  was  not  bad  enough  to remove……… What?  do  Drs   have  Xray  enabled  fingers …how  did he  know  from  poking and  prodding  me?? Apparently  all  the pain  and  sickness  and  discomfort  is  referred  pain  from my  back!  (  spine  now  curved  after  breaking  back  )…….. Yes  okay   so  I  suppose  I  just  have  to  get  used  to  that  all  too now!  Hey  Ho!   In  the  evening  we had  MIL over  to us  for  dinner .

If we were having  coffee : I would  tell you that on Friday nothing  much  happened , apart  from  washing , ironing   and  cooking. Saturday  core  class and  then over  to  see  MIL with  middle  son!

Today,  Sunday  we Have  MIL  over  for  dinner  again. As  you can  see it has  been a MIL week.

If  we  were having  coffee :  I would  have  to  apologize and  ask  where  my  manners   are  can  I  get  you  more  coffee,  tea, something  to  eat  or  an alcoholic  drink?

Well  Having  finish JuJoJan  organised  by  Linda G Hill  at  Life in  Progress February  has  brought us  Love Is In Da Bog  organised  by  Just fooling  around  with Bee  Imaagine  a whole  week  done  already!

I must  dash  now  loads  to do. Sorry  if I  am not  commenting as  much  but my like  does  mean a lot I promise. I shall be back  to  normal as and when.

If we  were  having  Coffee:  I would  have  to  say  we  are  all  sill  waiting  patiently   for  our  dear  Paul  Curran   to  rejoin us here at  the  coffee  share   but  until he is  well enough  and up  and  running again  we  shall  have  to  bide our  time!

For  now  everyone  Be  well  and  happy!

If we were having Coffee Original idea  from parttimemonster.

And of course  the


over at Part Time  Monster  and Gen’O’s Love  you  all



24 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. TanGental
    Feb 07, 2016 @ 08:12:33

    It’s a bugger about the back bladder conundrum. Hope you find some way of relief.


    • willowdot21
      Feb 07, 2016 @ 08:19:19

      Yes so do I , as usual it is left up to me to find a way to cope….. And I will. Thanks for reading as I said having a moan because I am feeling down !! 😦 xx


  2. bettylouise31
    Feb 07, 2016 @ 15:34:56

    Stomach problems are awful. I have had the most of my life. I hate it when the doctors tell you to go home and rest.


  3. socialbridge
    Feb 07, 2016 @ 16:07:07

    Willow, sorry to hear that the pain is unresolved. I had tummy issues back in early 2000s and went thru gallbladder and stones removal. It didn’t do a bit of good and was very unpleasant so at least they haven’t lined you up for that.
    Hopefully, you’ll get to the bottom of it. I’m sure all the recent stress isn’t helping.
    Take it as easy as you can.
    Love the pics and miss Paul too. xx


  4. herheadache
    Feb 07, 2016 @ 16:30:39

    Sounds like a nice day early on in your week, but I can sympathize with having to live with uncomfortable medical issues.
    Just visiting from a few of the blogging link ups you mentioned.


    • willowdot21
      Feb 07, 2016 @ 17:21:02

      Hi I hope you have enjoyed the links. Monday was lovely we both enjoyed it . As for the medical issues, well as for mine I shall just have to cope. As for mother in law the same I shall just have to cope. 🙂 here have another coffee and let’s relax. xxx


  5. Lynz Real Cooking
    Feb 07, 2016 @ 20:47:41

    I hope you feel better Willow! Sounds like lots of stress and you are a wonderful daughter in law! I love caramel as you know so please another but more sprinkles this time. xxx


  6. Diana
    Feb 07, 2016 @ 23:31:58

    Hope you’re feeling better!


  7. 1EarthUnited
    Feb 09, 2016 @ 19:41:32

    Sorry to hear about everyone’s health problems, feel better soon. Thanks for sharing your lovely slideshow with us! I hear people experience more illness during the winter due to lack of sun. Try traveling to warmer destinations and soak in the sunshine, perhaps a tropical vacation! All the best Willow. 🙂


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