the real world is a pain

Dear all I  am sorry to have to withdraw for a while. Not from choice but I cannot cope with the pressure from my other half . I can’t take another argument about me always being on the laptop, which I am not . That’s another matter , so the long and short of it is I shall not be around for a while  but I shall try to look in as often as I can so don’t forget me, I hope to be back.

It really does pain me as I do love to write and silly as it may seem you are all my friends and I care about you all and will miss you .

There is no point in me going on so remember   if I do not comment it is not because I don’t care and if I don’t publish  for a while be patient with me as I will be back.

Love you all , be safe and happy .XXXXXXXX 😉 😉 :):);) 😉 :):);) 😉 :):);) 😉 :):);) 😉 :):);) 😉 :):)

49 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. barbaramattio
    Jul 14, 2012 @ 19:49:57

    I shall miss you and your beautiful heart also. Be well, my friend.


  2. hiddinsight
    Jul 14, 2012 @ 20:14:13

    I totally understand 😦 Will miss your presence around here.


  3. Wendell A. Brown, aka. The Brown One Poet
    Jul 14, 2012 @ 21:35:10

    Love you also! Get well, we will be waiting!


    Jul 14, 2012 @ 23:50:46

    May you find peace within.


  5. WordsFallFromMyEyes
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 04:30:26

    Oh Willowdot, I am so, so sorry to read this. Oh please, may you take more charge of your freedom, your life. I hope whatever you do in the break, it’s good for you.

    Oh Willowdot, I came by to tell you I FINALLY got around to thanking you for a Reader Appreciation Award you once gave me – Damn. Too late. May you see this thanks one day. Sincerest, sincerest best to you. x N.


  6. gingerweir
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 05:29:07

    Come back soon, Willers.
    Be brave, thinking of you X


  7. gingerweir
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 08:23:38

    So sad, Willers.
    Come back soon. X


    • willowdot21
      Jul 15, 2012 @ 12:22:33

      I know but I will keep going maybe not as often as I would like but I shall be around. BTW Did you get my email?


      • gingerweir
        Jul 15, 2012 @ 12:46:09

        Got the one you sent before all this nonsense.
        Time for some rhubarb crumble, Foxy !

      • willowdot21
        Jul 15, 2012 @ 12:51:00

        Yes perhaps you could send some by the container load, not sure how often I shall be on here but will always check the mail , by hook or by crook or even Grims Scythe if I am desperate XXX QOS .
        PS yes it is bloody nonsense but I am here in it up to my ankles! 🙂 😉

  8. OyiaBrown
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 09:39:02

    This seems to me to be a very big mistake. How you spend your time in life is YOUR call and no-one else’s. Capitulate on that and where will it end? So long as we all use moderation!


  9. Mrs. Peacock
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 14:42:43

    Its important to be balanced and not neglect those that are most important to us. Put family first and recreation second and I am sure you will find a healthy balance between the two. Be well dear, and stay safe. Until we meet again 🙂


    • willowdot21
      Jul 15, 2012 @ 14:54:39

      Yes you are right, I have always put everyone else first all my life. When ever I join or do something I enjoy it becomes easier for me to give it up as it causes too much trouble . I thought now I had found something that was for me and would not impact on anyone. Hey ho! I shall be around but not as often . I certainly hope I will as I love writing ! You stay well too.


      • Mrs. Peacock
        Jul 15, 2012 @ 14:58:18

        I’m not saying giving up writing dear, sorry if I came off that way. I don’t want to see you give up something you love. If you need to talk you know where to find me.

  10. willowdot21
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 15:02:23

    Sorry just feeling a little raw right now , will speak soon. Thank you so much for listening!


  11. stephenedwards425
    Jul 15, 2012 @ 23:21:17

    You know exactly how I feel, so I won’t go into detail…I will miss you while you are gone…and be forever grateful when you return.

    Write me via email if you wish.

    Be encouraged!


    • willowdot21
      Jul 16, 2012 @ 13:44:13

      Thank you Stephen, I shall read and comment on as many posts as I can. I shall endeavour to post , I just need to find the time but sadly it will not be as often. I shall talk to you soon. thank you for your encouragement.


  12. bipolarmuse
    Jul 16, 2012 @ 01:12:06

    Understandable… take care of what you need to. We will be here when you return. ♥


  13. willowdot21
    Jul 16, 2012 @ 13:44:48

    thank you I hope to return.


  14. granbee
    Jul 17, 2012 @ 18:53:28

    I am slightly fearful for you, living with what seems like somewhat of a “control freak”, dear willowdot. I am so blessed in that my hubbie adores social networking almost more than I do! We use it to fellowship in new and different ways with each other! My prayers, my fervent prayers, for you always, dear sister!


    • willowdot21
      Jul 21, 2012 @ 16:27:46

      I have lived in this way for over forty years sometimes I can cope sometimes I can’t but I will be back I am so grateful to have met you. I shall not waste the gift of your friendship xx


  15. writinggomer
    Jul 17, 2012 @ 22:58:34

    Prayers for you, be well…as much as you can. Just don’t give up writing…you need something!


  16. evilnymphstuff
    Jul 19, 2012 @ 14:25:18

    Get well soon! Take the time you need. Sometimes a break is all we need and I totally understand.


  17. Lori Lipsky
    Jul 19, 2012 @ 22:32:46

    My best to you. We’ll see you when you return…


  18. kate58
    Jul 21, 2012 @ 09:04:39

    I understand, sweet friend. For my own reasons, I’ve not been around much lately either, but rest assured, I’ll not forget you & will be here when you return. ♥


  19. Androgoth
    Jul 21, 2012 @ 23:40:38

    I hope that you don’t take this the wrong way Willowdot but your other half needs to get a grip, you are only doing what you enjoy and why would anyone wish to spoil the enjoyment of a loved one by not allowing that enjoyment to take place… Like Kate, I understand why you are leaving for a while but in all honesty, you shouldn’t need to, and your other half should be ashamed of himself…

    Come back soon Willowdot and don’t be unhappy, we will still be here on your return, and I hope that will be sooner rather than later 🙂 🙂

    Androgoth XXx


    • willowdot21
      Jul 22, 2012 @ 05:23:03

      Thank you Androgoth I understand what you are saying and you are right. I Shall be back. Be well and have a wickedly good week xxxxx


      • Androgoth
        Jul 23, 2012 @ 23:27:05

        I may be a tad blunt sometimes I know
        but I definitely mean well and I hope that
        you will be coming back soon 🙂 🙂

        Androgoth XXx

      • willowdot21
        Jul 29, 2012 @ 10:55:30

        Be as blunt as you like I hope I may return eventually for now I shall just grab my moments to say hi as when I can ! I miss writing daily I cannot bring myself to write too much on paper as for obvious reasons I do not want my work read. I am working on a short story unlike anything I have done before…. Trials and tribulations!! I hear they make us stronger ???

  20. Martin Shone
    Jul 22, 2012 @ 17:15:09

    We are all with you, Willow ❤ xx


  21. WordsFallFromMyEyes
    Jul 28, 2012 @ 00:27:36

    Mentioned you in a post today. I’m thinking of you. I wish you to know that. I hope you come out with the balls of your life, in your hands. N’n.


    • willowdot21
      Jul 29, 2012 @ 11:00:29

      I miss being on here Noeleen, I try to sneak in when I can. Have no fear I will be back somehow , for now I shall slip in here as often as I can I am sorry for not commenting but be assured I read and listen on my phone whenever I get the chance. It hurts not to write I have so much to say ( big mouth 🙂 ) Love to you and Daniel and if your sister tries to contact me she will get short shrift… polite but short shrift!hugs to you both!!


  22. eof737
    Jul 29, 2012 @ 04:08:22

    I was wondering what happened to you… I’ve been dealing with some health issues so didn’t check in sooner. I’m truly sorry to read this and I send you love, light and courage. I do hope you return to blogging soon. I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship, but I hope you can reach an amicable compromise that honors both of you. You are in my prayers… 🙂


    • willowdot21
      Jul 29, 2012 @ 11:08:50

      Firstly I am sorry to hear you have been unwell I do hope that you are improving now I am sending you positive vibes, be well. Thank you for caring about me I do hope to get back here to my beloved blog sooner than later. I just cannot cope with arguing about it right now so I am not giving up but giving in just for now. I shall pop in when ever I get the chance until I can be back and write as much as I like. I shall be writing I will not give up I cannot . I have had to give up on many things in the past but I shall not give up writing.Love and prayers I send to you. xx 🙂


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